Thursday, August 19, 2010

Stuck in Limbo (and a fun meme)

I answered a meme & saved the draft since October last year. So here I am  cleaning out the B.S from my life (& this blog: stupid chinese spam). I found this picture  & It's appropriate for the way I feel today - like complete crap! 

But I'm supposed to trust God to work things out with my ex. It's been almost 2 years since we've been in this limbo. I'm tired. It's so draining. Or maybe I'm just getting my period & my hormones are playing crazy tricks on me. I'm not sure.

Or how do you see it? am I being S E L F I S H for wanting him?



....and the Meme:

1. What is your name: Anya

2. A four Letter Word: Anus

3. A boy's Name: Abel

4. A girl's Name: Ariel

5. An occupation: Artist
6. A color: Auburn

7. Something you'll wear: Anklets

9. A food: Amala

10. Something found in the bathroom: Arm & Hammer toothpaste.

11. A place: Anaheim

12. A reason for being late: Arsenal lost the game!!
13. Something you'd shout: Ass-face!

14. A movie title: Astronaut's Wife

15. Something you drink: Apple juice

16. A musical group: Abba

17. An animal: Antelope

18. A street name: Ajax 

19. A type of car: Audi


Ms.O said...

Awww *hugs* I'm sure you will make the right decision. Feel better babes!

Third World Profashional said...

I'm a definite "don't look back" babe. Once I'm done with a relationship that's it because there's a reason you broke up in the first place.

But again, there's also a reason you went out with that person.

In the end, there are no rules or no right thing to do, just whatever makes you happy. Hope you make the right decision boo xxx

*oh yeah.....FIRST!! (i hope)

Third World Profashional said...

Oh snap! Ms O beat me to it. kkmmmfffttt

Ginger said...

I heart that poster. my heart has looked worse than that at some stages. But I am still standing! So will you.
AnyaPosh, maybe you re having all these thoughts cause you are lonely and all. Like 3rd world Pro said, 'There's a reason why you decided to break up'. Weigh the pros and cons. Write it down even. And maybe it will become clearer.

yankeenaijababe said...

Hmm...even though am not feeling too well, had to read this post since you asked me to.

If I were in your state, my first response is to completely determine the benefits and disadvantages of being with an Ex. What led to the breakup, is it something as bad as cheating? if it's cheating, girl you deserve better, don't want you dealing with baggage and fear in your life.

commit your desires to God's hand, he knows your pain and will meet your need, the type and right man for you, sometimes an Ex can be full of negative energy and is not needed to progress forward in life, it happened to me...maybe it's time to let go of this Ex.

Have an open mind, get to know new people, pray , laugh, live life and ask God to heal your heart and give you the very best with no drama attached to it...Cheers dearie!

Myne Whitman said...

The other girls have said it all. You'll be fine dear. All the best.

Nice Anon said...

Some things are better left in the past but then again everything isn't always black and white... shades of grey plenty

Jaycee said...

...and if in the two-year limbo you found yourself maturing into a woman of strong character because of the dilemma, count it all joy.

ps: don't mind my forced prose. I pray you make the right choice :D

seye said...

About your ex, I think you should have a serious talk where you define what you want and then you guys can take it slow. This, only if he's worth it. He may be a 'good' person but not be clean.

Sometimes, we deserve second chances. Sometimes, our greatest mistakes may lead us to utter repentance.
Sometimes, we just may find out 'home' is what we need and everywhere else is hell.

A not-flawless guy

StandTall-The Activist said...

it depends on why you broke up in the first place. You need to sort that out within you and think deeply if going back to him is worth it.

Hmmm the Chinese spam has taken over my blog o

The Memoirs said...

I truly don't know about dating an Ex o!Moreso if you've done the back n forth with him for a while.

But then again, the best decision is hardly written in black n white. Go with "heart".

*Good Stuff here*

The Girl with the Red Hair said...

Like Standtall said, it depends on why you guys broke up in the first place. sort out things with your self first, then have a talk with him. He might be the best thing in your life or the worse in the long run. Take your time

Afrobabe said...

4 lettered word...anus??? LMAO...something I can imagine you yelling out actually..

Be good and put that man out of his misery...go and give the brother some love!

TinTin said...

lmaooooo 4 letter word?? anus???
i really wish i cld give u advice on relationships..but i'm the worse person!

Original Mgbeke said...

The situation with your ex sounds complex indeed. I guess I should be cliche and tell you to ultimately follow your heart (and a bit of your head too o : )
Hiya Anya, I don miss you small o!