Sunday, January 18, 2009

The Year of the Bitch

Happy New Year Everyone!!!

If you haven't noticed already or felt the tinge of excitement in the air, 2009 is going to be amazing! I don't know exactly why just yet - but I do know that it is going to be a wonderful year. A year that will be equally challenging & invigorating. Cheers to the next 11/12 months!
As the title says, i'm tagging '09 as the year to re-showcase my inner Bitch. She's been stuck in the closet of Self for far too long now. So you may be wondering, what's Anya on about with this bitch-talk, well let me explain it to ya:

This is the year of *Being* In *Total* Control *of* Herself

This abbreviation was coined by Dr. V. Ashley but it has sufficed to fit perfectly with the way I'm going to attack approach this year. I've had enough of my own passivity in taking control of my life & the things that really matter. I've had enough of being a super-agreeable person but hurting myself in the process. I've had it with being too accomodating, too tolerant, too nice (too let's-keep-the-peace-don't-wanna-hurt-nobody's-precious-feelings!) - Oh, Anya's such a good listener...yada yada yada. I've had it with taking on everyone's problems; over-burdening myself with everyone's mishaps & forgetting to deal with my own problems. Enough! Enough!! Enough!!! ENOUGH!!!!!.
This is my time to quit whining about my hesitation to burst out the Bitch & just f**king DO IT!

So let me introduce myself, my name is Anya BadAssBitchIV Posh. I'm too opinionated, too assertive, too realistic, too über awesome for all your bullsh!t.

-A. Posh
Proud Member, Heartless Bitches International

35 comments:

Lolia said...

Awwww I completely understand what you mean about being tired of being super nice...not sure how I feel about the bitch thing though...Just do you and I'm sure you'll have a wonderful new year :)

Abujamaiden said...

I remember using the babe-in-total control-of-herself *bitch* when guys made fun of us in highschool.

Wow at your declaration!!!!

Yea for feminists!

NigerianDramaQueen said...

I'm right there with you on this year being a g8 one. Just do you boo...

One of the things I've learned is that being in total control means realizing that sometimes I have no control at all...

Amina said...

happy new year!!
girl, have you heard why men love bitches by Argov??
lol...i am also trying to be a badass bitch..lol

Ms.O said...

I feel you girl, just do you and whatever makes you happy. Happy New year!

Funms-the rebirth said...

yeah!!!! go Anyaposh!!!!! have a beautiful 2009.......... im also a BITCH

Original Mgbeke said...

I hear that! This is the year to do YOU and whatever makes YOU happy. Let's toast to that. :-)

miz-cynic said...

AM afraid i on the other hand is trying to tone down a bit on my "viciousness"...im now sober...i once told one guy i was dating oh ha tht"oh u are feeling like those guys tht are playas abi and will start misbehaving hoping u'll get the hint and break up with them....feeling all gentlemanly and holier than thou abi sao tht they would not say he's heartless..., he broke up with her...."maa sin e debi teru o ti ni ba e and u'll be forced to to say" ah ok im not doing again...nonsense!"...i was so angry en....but this year ill just rather smile and leave the person be.

AlooFar said...

Go babes, just do it!

Someone once said "we begin to live the moment we decide to be in control of our affairs"

All the best!

Jarrai said...

You let them have it hun!!

There is nothing better than being yourself,for those you can't take it...well there are plenty highways to exit from

Happy new year xx

ShonaVixen said...

You go girl!!!

Marjoram said...

youve been tagged on the two truths one lie meme.

bumight said...

go on with ur bad self!

Afrobabe said...

Wow, the girl means business, anyone who doesn't know that will learn the hard way....
You go girl....

Shubby Doo said...

welcome back to your inner self...i've been in tune with my for several years and it has been very good for me...very real...and like you said uber awesome

happy new year to you

Chari said...

looool!!!!

get on BISSSSHHH!!!

FineBoy Agbero said...

hmmmm... nice!

sound like d kinda lady i'd like!

been meanin to come around here and drop comments, but most tyms i just dey read, disappear. No worry, 2009 go witness me here!!!

Therapy said...

I want to be a bitch too!!! Loving the post, I'm motivated! x

mizchif said...

Nice one, very nice.

Happy new B.I.T.C.Hy year!

LG said...

...n so shall it be'
hapinuye dear'

Miss Definitely Maybe said...

LOL am so with you,on this one, im tired of being Ms extremely Nice even though it hurts

Emeka Amakeze said...

I feel it too. It really a wonderful year.

Nefertiti said...

Interesting. Never hear that one before *Files it away for future use*

Do u, babes. Always do u. No one is worth hurting urself for. And the one who's worth it won't make u hurt.

Ms.O said...

hey! You have been tagged! see my blog for details!

guerreiranigeriana said...

...lol...nice...i think i need to join...please email or snail mail me an application please and see what you can do to help expedite the application process please, thanks...happy new year to you sweets...its been a minute...*raises her glass of red wine to toast*...

AnyaPosh said...

I'm glad everyone's onboard with taking 2009 to the next level. Enough of that bashful passivity...we're taking 2009 by force! I wish everyone the best in this new year - take it for yourself!

MissLove said...

pls can i join!??? heartless bitch int.! oh

Third World Profashional said...

i second that! being a bitch is fabulous!

stuck in my throat o said...

LOL!!!We all need to unleash our inner bitches some times...
Enjoy your year...

Mista Jaycee said...

Why Bitch in any form? I would much rather be a King than a thug. What you speak is what becomes. Queen never Bitch dig? Just vibing. Be sure to stop by
Mista Jaycee

~Sirius~ said...

Nice!......1st time here.

I'm Definitely being a BITCH this year onwards.

In my head and around me said...

You are woman, hear you roar!

I am a BITCH too o! or at the very least one in the making.

Laquita said...

I also understand how you feel - one of my goals for the last who-knows-how-long years was to learn to say 'no' - I'll be watching your progress and taking pointers :o)

BTW: Thanks for stopping by my blog. It just takes a little patience to do the braids and it's very therapuetic (sp?) also - and believe me at first glance mine look nice and neat but they are all different sizes.

I only use a comb to part in the front two rows and work hardest on the front and very back so they can look good in a bun :o)

James Tubman said...

i think it will be an exciting year as well

been a long time

Omotee! said...

I'M MOTIVATED!!!!!!!!!!
go girl