tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309373737601985781.post4327427188077170886..comments2023-10-31T12:03:06.728-04:00Comments on Anya Posh: The Woman & WifeAnya Poshhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10847500731838213016noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309373737601985781.post-2117505582771218152010-03-15T08:50:38.610-04:002010-03-15T08:50:38.610-04:00lol @ men . . . they sure aint submitting, no mind...lol @ men . . . they sure aint submitting, no mind wetin dem dey show 4 TV - a henpecked man is so unattractive & it don't happen like dat in d real world.<br /><br /><br />my dear, no need to worry ur pretty head abt d many & differing views of marriage out there. Find ur own definition, try to make it fair on u as well as ur partner, den stick to it while looking 4 d man who has same as his personal views too. B4 i got married, someone advised me to write out 10 attributes i DEFINITELY wanted in a spouse. These r attributes i couldn't compromise on. I wrote them dem, prayed with them, & wen i met my husband, he passed 9 out of 10 (dat was good enough 4 me).Flourishing Floridahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13587385454888882192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309373737601985781.post-38340998978495810562010-03-14T04:19:35.024-04:002010-03-14T04:19:35.024-04:00Anya,
well it doesn't have to be like that.
...Anya, <br />well it doesn't have to be like that. <br />If you are both clear about your roles then you will be fine....I cannot imagine being just a childbearer, or even a second in command to my guy. I am a complex human being and cannot be relegated to a singular role. <br />On the other hand, I maintain, Divorce is your friend!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309373737601985781.post-81890165299885677392010-03-04T11:56:28.976-05:002010-03-04T11:56:28.976-05:00It is great, like all of God's creations, if o...It is great, like all of God's creations, if only women would submit to thier husbands and if men would LOVE thier wives. But nowadays, the roles are reversed and women are the ones loving and husbands are well... lol.. husbands?!<br /><br />I am happily married, by God's grace, and it takes hardwork and a deep commitment to make it work.BiMbyLaDs**https://www.blogger.com/profile/17437748097637565289noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309373737601985781.post-14757054157631393612010-03-03T02:46:11.552-05:002010-03-03T02:46:11.552-05:00Your ice cream pictures were making me not concent...Your ice cream pictures were making me not concentrate :-)<br /><br />The wonderful marital bliss you imagine is possible, but it comes with effort on BOTH parties.<br /><br />Before I got married, I was discouraged seeing alot of "wrong" things going on. But when I saw that there were still good ones with right values and the women treated right, I said marriage is worth a try...Ritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13202972020876371306noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309373737601985781.post-45587431285361119502010-03-02T20:58:29.333-05:002010-03-02T20:58:29.333-05:00nice anon, right there with you babes; fear of the...nice anon, right there with you babes; fear of the unexpected!<br /><br />lady x, so true. I fear that i will become complacent & start putting up with bullshit because I will be "doing it for the kids"! may I never lose my mind because of marital woes!<br /><br />sherri, i'm ok jare, thanks for checking up on me. everyday i think about the reasons why I would ever get married; i'm afraid they may all be the wrong reasons :(Anya Poshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10847500731838213016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309373737601985781.post-54468406627088830172010-03-02T17:53:45.233-05:002010-03-02T17:53:45.233-05:00Marriage can be beautiful with the right person an...Marriage can be beautiful with the right person and if married for the right reason.<br />i can def say, marriage is very conflicting for the independent female.<br /><br />how are u?Sherrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14010927174982585682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309373737601985781.post-27130360930346901342010-02-27T07:14:15.288-05:002010-02-27T07:14:15.288-05:00Marriage scares me. Especially when I think about ...Marriage scares me. Especially when I think about being faithful to one guy for years and years and one day he will either decide to marry another woman or cheat on me when I have done neither! I would just walk out. I've told my sisters to make sure they drag me out of the house if they have to just in case I have lost traces of my sanity and I say I'll stay.Lady Xhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05905725300292828816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309373737601985781.post-18008207072023078622010-02-26T23:26:01.931-05:002010-02-26T23:26:01.931-05:00My aunt said to me today " marriage isn't...My aunt said to me today " marriage isn't the best thing to happen to a woman but I want you to marry all the same!" See me see confusion oo!<br /><br />Marriage dey scare me these days because apparently what we all think it is.. isn't actually the case when push comes to shove.Nice Anonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11821297787183068066noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309373737601985781.post-53073544666131074572010-02-26T15:15:30.490-05:002010-02-26T15:15:30.490-05:00Sirius and Myne W., I'm there with you. It'...Sirius and Myne W., I'm there with you. It's a partnership in my view; it may not necessarily be 50-50. It may be 60-40 or 70-30. But there must be acceptance, love & companionship. <br /><br />Myne W., yes; go ahead & use the intro paragraph.<br /><br />leggy, that is true. people choose to tolerate all kinds of things.Anya Poshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10847500731838213016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309373737601985781.post-3740938245489680562010-02-26T14:22:46.224-05:002010-02-26T14:22:46.224-05:00i think its a personal thing..as in it depends on ...i think its a personal thing..as in it depends on the man you marry.not everyone thinks like that.leggyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14989088139010700349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309373737601985781.post-4773273059821236592010-02-26T11:33:13.404-05:002010-02-26T11:33:13.404-05:00I hiss with Sirius.
AP, yeah a lot of people clin...I hiss with Sirius.<br /><br />AP, yeah a lot of people cling on to traditional roles especially the men but even some women. I hear some say, as far as the mistresses and concubines are not under your nose. I say BS. <br /><br />I am married. When I accepted the engagement ring and when I said I do, I had a dream. Of partnership, companionship and love. I can say now that it is possible if you both agree to it. <br /><br />I have a show with Vera and my SO tomorrow, Why should I get married? Hope you'll be listening. Also, if I may. Could I use your opening paragraph for my promo? Thanks.Mynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07595087387069634003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7309373737601985781.post-2261328820638407002010-02-26T01:56:44.104-05:002010-02-26T01:56:44.104-05:00Lets see....Companion, helper, friend, lover.
And...Lets see....Companion, helper, friend, lover.<br /><br />And it can be achieved, as long as both parties want it and work towards it<br /><br /><br />Not a legimate chid bearer!<br /><br />*hisss~Sirius~https://www.blogger.com/profile/14771610618431377950noreply@blogger.com